Do men choose mates based on looks?男人选择伴侣的基础上期待？

Myth or fact?神话还是事实？

Men choose a mate based on looks while women choose a mate based on how rich they are.男人选择伴侣的基础上看起来，而女性选择伴侣的基础上，如何丰富他们。

We’ve been told for years that the statement above is more fact than myth, but researchers  have found that despite what women and men SAY they want, when it comes to what they are ACTUALLY attracted to, both sexes choose looks over financial status.我们被告知，多年来，该声明以上是更多的事实比神话，但研究人员已经发现，尽管妇女和男人说，他们希望，当谈到什么，他们其实是吸引，男女均选择看来，超过财政状况。

This work, conducted by co-author Paul W. Eastwick and Eli J Finkel, doctoral candidates in the department of psychology at Northwestern University, is published in the February issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.这方面的工作，所进行的共同作者保罗瓦特伊斯特威克和礼j芬克尔，博士生在心理学系西北大学，是发表在二月的问题，该杂志的个性与社会心理学。

That’s not to say a prospect’s earning power was deemed irrelevant.这并不是说前景的盈利能力被视为无关宏旨。 In fact, after appearance, both men and women showed equal interest in good earning potential and ambition, the study found.事实上，在外观，不论男女，显示平等的兴趣，良好的盈利潜力和野心，研究发现。

The co-authors suggest that it could be that men and women don’t really know what they want in a partner.的共同作者建议，这可能是因为男人和女人真的不知道他们想在一个合作伙伴。 Or, perhaps both sexes tend to engage in faulty role-play, taking cues from popular culture and gender myths when drafting their own idealized views of a mate.或者，也许男女双方往往在从事错误的角色扮演，同时考虑线索，从流行文化和性别的神话在起草自己的理想化的意见，一个伴侣。

That explains why I found dating so challenging.这解释了为什么我发现约会，所以富有挑战性的。